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Some people are going to love you. Some people are going to hate you. Some don't care. Most don't even know you are alive. So you have to roll with the punches! "Arrudaag: before you complain about fixing the Iphone, why don't you fix your fat ass face. and if you want mms that badly, just get another phone that offers it. " Then some random commenter left this in my defense: "Kevinmccarthy17: I guarantee you wouldn't say that to him in person or he'd smack the shit outta you" And It didn't bother me one bit. I found the first comment amusing. Then after a few hours I get this comment: "Arrudaag: you know what, your kind of right. at first I thought you were one of those other youtube users that are retarded, but after seeing some of your other videos you actually make some sense. i apologize." So like I said you can't take everything personal. In this case the person realized how AWESOME I am and corrected himself. Even if he didn't I don't. You have to take the good with the bad. Everyone is not going to like you no matter what you do or who you are!

By ohdoctah

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Episode 17 Confidence is Key

Sun, 28 Sep 2008 07:03:06 GMT

Some people have it. Some people do not! Confidence. There is something you can do about it! Try hard and believe in yourself! You can build confidence slowly but surly!

By ohdoctah

Tags : advice, answers, ask, confidence, dance, fun, gary, help, ohdoctah, questions, tips, vaynerchuk, viddler, wine

Episode 7- Sunny Side Of Stripping

Sun, 29 Jun 2008 17:04:00 GMT

Have you ever been to a strip club? Do you think they're great? Do you think they're terrible? Well we break it down! Strippers are people too! So lets not judge! Everyone has a job! So do yours and enjoy the show!

By ohdoctah

Tags : answers, art, askohdoctah, banks, bar, classes, club, dancing, exotic, facebook, females, gentlemen, girls, myspace, oprah, pole, pownce, questions, sex, strippers, twitter, tyra, women

Episode 6- Male Sensitivity

Sun, 22 Jun 2008 23:22:02 GMT

Episode 6 Male Sensitivity! Talking about when its ok to cry. When its not ok to cry! And all kinds of stuff!

By ohdoctah

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episode 5 liars

Tue, 17 Jun 2008 05:13:01 GMT

Everyone does it and everyone hates it! Liars are on the loose.. lets talk about it!

By ohdoctah

Tags : Liars, Lies, answers, askohdoctah, glock, http://twitter.com/JGLIZOCK (16:09) , http://twitter.com/ohdoctah (16:06) , http://twitter.com/ohdoctah (17:02) , http://www.g2list.com/ (0:53) , ohdoctah, questions, truth

It's a Cling Thing

Sun, 18 May 2008 19:18:47 GMT

Answering Ashley's question which was: Dearest Ohdoctah, This situation is confusing to me, but I hope it will make more sense to you. I care about my boyfriend a lot. I want things to last between us. I don't know if we have different perspectives of what a relationship is or what.... I'll try not to make this too long, but it's a little hard to explain and has a few components to it.... I like being with him and talking to him, and I don't think of myself as a clingy girlfriend, but the way he responds to me sometimes makes me feel like a pest. He never says anything to that effect, I guess, just the way he acts towards me sometimes. I would chalk it up to him being an independent guy, but I'm pretty independent, too, so that explanation doesn't work for me. Just an example, the other day I got a little upset about something; then I asked him if I was more difficult than his ex-girlfriends. He hesitated and said no, just that I required more attention, but that I had other (good) qualities. Another thing is, when you care about someone, you usually do things to make them happy, right? I know I do. I don't feel like he ever tries to do anything special to make me happy, though. I don't mean he should go out and buy me an expensive present or anything, just anything to show me he cares. I know he likes me. He's told me before that he does. Plus, I sincerely doubt he'd be with me at all if he didn't. He hadn't had a girlfriend for two years before we started going out. So he doesn't settle. And I usually want sex more than he does, so I know he's not with me for sex. I'm not rich or anything, so he's not mooching on me. In August he's graduating and moving 2 hours away from where we are now, and he's told me that it's no big deal and we will be able to stay together. So I guess all in all it's safe to assume he cares about me. But it's kind of killing me that I never have anything tangible of it. Maybe it's just things I'm not noticing. I never feel like he likes me as much as I li

By ohdoctah

Tags : Answers, Ohdoctah, Questions, clingy, girl, love

Say Something

Sun, 18 May 2008 19:07:45 GMT

Answer to Meredeth's question: Ohdoctah, my Doctor, Your words are so kind and soothing and your presence vital. Well, I'm not trying to get through to you as Holly Mary and, needless to say, when such a problem is created I know I am at fault primarily. But, I swear to God, I play by the rules and never hit below the belt. Those are my morals and those surrounding me know it. Unfortunately. I just want to know how a girl who has f....d every pole in the neighbourhood (and in each neighbourhood she's ever been to) takes pride in it and brags about it. Why when she sniffs that someone is down in the dumps, her face lights up and can't wait to give him/her a little push to go further down, or better, never get up on his/her feet again. As for the guy I'm in love with, I never told him. I showed him. He is objectively more good-looking than me and considered a catch. I don't think I fell for his looks. I fell for the fact that besides his appearance, he hasn't got above himself, he's not conceited, and generally doesn't see himself as a rooster in a hen-hoose. Even more, I loved that he is so smart he can see right through anyone, he even knows who have been talking negatively about him behind his back and treats them accordingly. He saw right through me too, that's why I caught his eye. Then on, we didn't have to talk much to communicate. We both knew what we were thinking of each other. It's the inhibitions about my looks and my absorbedness in things in my life which demand immediate solutions that held me back. I know me wanting him is not enough. I also know, he doesn't want me as badly as I want him, because he'd have done something effective to get me. But I'm so damn inhibited as a person, and as if this wasn't enough, I found myself in the most inappropriate environment. I don't know if I've really given him the chance to approach me, but I know he attempted to. So, tell me, what do you understand when a person doesn't even say farewell to you when you leave for good? Instead, makes herself sca

By ohdoctah

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