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    <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 21:56:06 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>firstwivesworld.com - The First Conversation with the Step Mom: 3 Topics You Must Cover</title>
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.firstwivesworld.com"&gt;http://www.firstwivesworld.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If your Ex has remarried and you share custody of your kids, you?ll have to speak with your Ex?s new wife (aka ?the step-mom?) sooner or later. So why not do it right ? right from the start?  From making sure the homework gets done to arranging ?the drop-offs?, divorce expert Brenda Rodstrom has great advice for making this cringe-worthy relationship a healthy one.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 21:56:06 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>firstwivesworld.com - A Blended Family Holiday: 3 Pitfalls to Avoid</title>
      <link>http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/videos/34/</link>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/videos/34/&quot; title=&quot;firstwivesworld.com - A Blended Family Holiday: 3 Pitfalls to Avoid&quot; &gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/thumbnail.action?token=aabe9e20&amp;size=1&quot; width=&quot;114&quot; height=&quot;86&quot; alt=&quot;firstwivesworld.com - A Blended Family Holiday: 3 Pitfalls to Avoid&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.firstwivesworld.com"&gt;http://www.firstwivesworld.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sure,&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sure, the Brady Bunch made Christmas and Thanksgiving look fun, but navigating blended family get-togethers in the real world is more like an episode of Law &amp; Order: Dysfunctional Family Unit.  Here, divorce &amp; co-parenting mediator Dr. Jeannette Lofas identifies what not to do when blending for the holidays.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 17:15:01 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2008-06-17T17:15:01Z</dc:date>
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      <title>firstwivesworld.com - 3 Tips to Help Your Kid(s) Deal with a New Sibling</title>
      <link>http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/videos/33/</link>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/videos/33/&quot; title=&quot;firstwivesworld.com - 3 Tips to Help Your Kid(s) Deal with a New Sibling&quot; &gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/thumbnail.action?token=5a34e15c&amp;size=1&quot; width=&quot;114&quot; height=&quot;86&quot; alt=&quot;firstwivesworld.com - 3 Tips to Help Your Kid(s) Deal with a New Sibling&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.firstwivesworld.com"&gt;http://www.firstwivesworld.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Has&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Has a new marriage suddenly thrown step-siblings into the already frenzied mix of your blended family? If so, you?re likely to have your hands full: Managing a bigger family, warding off negative emotions, and making sure all the kids get along. But fear not, help is just a click away in the form of clinical social worker Debra Burrell, who shares her expert tips with Debbie.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 16:11:01 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>firstwivesworld</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2008-06-17T16:11:01Z</dc:date>
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      <title>firstwivesworld.com - The New Blended Family: 3 Ways to Manage Your Emotions</title>
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      <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/videos/32/&quot; title=&quot;firstwivesworld.com - The New Blended Family: 3 Ways to Manage Your Emotions&quot; &gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/thumbnail.action?token=539a20d2&amp;size=1&quot; width=&quot;114&quot; height=&quot;86&quot; alt=&quot;firstwivesworld.com - The New Blended Family: 3 Ways to Manage Your Emotions&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.firstwivesworld.com"&gt;http://www.firstwivesworld.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here?s&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here?s the bad news: The emotions you?ll experience when trying to function in a blended family range from frustration to serious frustration. The good news is that these feelings are normal, temporary, and even manageable?if you check out this segment with relationship expert Dr. Dale Atkins.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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&lt;p&gt; Tags : &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/tags/atkins&quot;&gt;atkins&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/tags/blended&quot;&gt;blended&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/tags/dale&quot;&gt;dale&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/tags/debbie&quot;&gt;debbie&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/tags/dr.&quot;&gt;dr.&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/tags/emotions&quot;&gt;emotions&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/tags/expert&quot;&gt;expert&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/tags/familiy&quot;&gt;familiy&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/tags/firstwivesworld.com&quot;&gt;firstwivesworld.com&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/tags/functional&quot;&gt;functional&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/tags/manage&quot;&gt;manage&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/tags/nigro&quot;&gt;nigro&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/tags/relationship&quot;&gt;relationship&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 14:54:00 GMT</pubDate>
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.firstwivesworld.com"&gt;http://www.firstwivesworld.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you?re a divorced mother or a step-mom, is your blended family doomed to become a dysfunctional one? Not if you watch this segment, in which psychologist (and love guru) Dr. Linda Olson shares tips with Debbie for creating blended families that work.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Mon, 16 Jun 2008 21:44:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>firstwivesworld</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2008-06-16T21:44:00Z</dc:date>
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      <title>firstwivesworld.com - Don't Overly Confide In Your Teen</title>
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Now that your child is a teenager, do you feel you finally have a confidant instead of a kid?  Can you share your frustrations about love, money, and your Ex?  No, no, and no!  Watch as child expert Susan Epstein explains to Debbie why your problems are T.M.I. for your teens (Duh, Mom..."Too much information"...!)&#xD;
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&lt;a href="http://www.firstwivesworld.com/resource/adult-children"&gt;http://www.firstwivesworld.com/resource/adult-children&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 14:36:05 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>firstwivesworld.com - 5 Tips For Making Unified Family Rules</title>
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Does your Ex maintain a different set of rules in his house than you do in yours?  Is your child picking up different values and manners (and maybe even a different vocabulary) whenever s/he is away?  Consistency is important, but difficult to attain.  So watch Debbie's chat with Dr. Scott Haltzman, who shares tips for unifying both of your child's homes. &#xD;
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      <pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 14:58:51 GMT</pubDate>
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If you and your Ex have joint custody, you know all about the dreaded "drop-off". But are your drop-off tactics helpful or hurtful to your child(ren)? In this must-see segment, child expert Marsha Temlock shares with Debbie the best and worst ways to handle this touchy process...not just for you, but for your kids.&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 15:22:11 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2008-05-14T15:22:11Z</dc:date>
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When you separate or divorce, and your husband moves out, how do you minimize the trauma to your children? Is it best to isolate them, or involve them in the process? Debbie gets the answers from child expert Amy J. L. Baker.&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 17:58:26 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2008-05-13T17:58:26Z</dc:date>
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      <title>firstwivesworld.com - 3 Signs Your Child Knows You're Getting a Divorce</title>
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Preparing your child(ren) for divorce is a tough task.  But are they already aware that a divorce is on the horizon?  Watch Debbie?s chat with Certified Parent Coach Tammy Gold, who identifies the signs that lead children to suspect marital problems, as well as how to best deal with children?s emotions at this difficult time.&#xD;
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      <title>firstwivesworld.com - 3 Financial Clues That He?s Looking for a Divorce</title>
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When you can't read his mind, read his pocketbook! Believe it or not, your husband's financial activity may provide plenty of clues as to if he's considering divorce. Watch as Financial Expert Lili Vasileff tells Debbie what to look for.&#xD;
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      <dc:date>2008-04-11T15:49:28Z</dc:date>
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Think all your child support woes are behind you once the papers have been signed? You may need to hear financial expert Craig Hyldahl?s breakdown of the factors that determine whether or not a child support settlement will be successful during his visit with Debbie.&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2008 21:07:06 GMT</pubDate>
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The Pros &amp; Cons of Selling The Marital Home&#xD;
Is that cozy breakfast nook harder to part with than your ex? Maybe so, but there are key factors to consider when deciding whether to keep or sell the marital home. Debbie gets the scoop from legal expert Janell Weinstein.&#xD;
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Janell Weinstein is a family law attorney who earned a J.D. in 1991 from Hofstra University School of Law and a B.A. from Rutgers University, Douglass College in 1988. Weinstein's areas of practice include family and matrimonial law, including divorce, child support, alimony, custody, post-divorce judgment matters, domestic violence, domestic partnerships and pre-marital agreements; real estate law, purchase, sale and refinancing issues. She also specialized in other areas of civil litigation.&#xD;
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She is a Barrister for the New Jersey Family Law Inns of Court. She was previously an Early Settlement panelist for the Family Part, and a panel member for a matrimonial seminar conducted by the New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education.&#xD;
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Weinstein has appeared as a guest commentator for Court TV n/k/a TruTV, as well on Sirus Satelite Radio, and the U.K.'s "GMTV." She is a volunteer at the Women's Rights Information Center in Englewood, New Jersey.&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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Debbie Nigro goes to the streets of NYC and gets words of encouragement from NYC women for Silda Spitzer. We want Silda to know that we are thinking of her and that she has the support of the NYC women behind her. &lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2008 20:22:44 GMT</pubDate>
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Filing for bankruptcy could be described as ???a divorce for finances???. But is it your best option when a ???real??? divorce has ruined your finances? Finance Expert Sanyika Calloway Boyce chats with Debbie on the hard truth behind modern bankruptcy.&#xD;
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Is "taking him to the cleaners" your best financial move? You might be surprised. If you let your emotions dictate your financial actions during a divorce, you won't be thinking strategically ??? and ultimately might not get what you deserve. Financial expert Maryann Kelly talks with Debbie about the importance of keeping a cool head, understanding your assets, and smart negotiation.&#xD;
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How to Find An Attorney Who's Right For You&#xD;
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There are many different styles of lawyering in the divorce world. There are some who subscribe to the slash and burn mentality and others who will settle at any price. Certainly there are many in between.&#xD;
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When interviewing attorneys, it's important to choose an attorney who matches your comfort level of how aggressive you would like to be in your case. When searching for a matrimonial attorney, it's also essential to look for a lawyer who will answer your questions.&#xD;
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It's important that you understand the process so you can form a "team" with your counsel. Although your attorney will know the law, you as the client will have the best grasp on the facts. Your attorney will need to work hand in hand with you to know the relevant facts to successfully argue your case.&#xD;
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Think there's nothing you can do about an unfair settlement? Think again! Debbie and legal expert Laurie Puhn discuss the little-known facts surrounding renegotiating a divorce settlement.&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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Do you know who really has legal rights over step-children? From signing report cards to drafting a will, legal expert Susan Reach Winters has some surprising answers in her informative chat with Debbie.&#xD;
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Susan Reach Winters is a shareholder and the chairperson of the family Law Department of Budd Larner, P.C. She has broad experience in all areas of family law, including divorce, prenuptial agreements, business and other asset valuations, custody and visitation, child support, alimony and equitable distribution. She holds a B.S. from Rutgers University and a J.D. from Seton Hall University School of Law. &lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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