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    <pubDate>Sat, 26 Dec 2009 19:16:20 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Why a Social Network for Divorced Women?</title>
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This video is by www.firstwivesworld.com to help inform divorced women about the concept of a social network on the Internet. It is a lesson teaching them of connections to be made &amp; communications that will take place by searching the site.&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 04:56:03 GMT</pubDate>
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This video is presented by www.firstwivesworld.com to help inform divorced women about the concept of a social network on the Internet.  It guides them through a short lesson teaching them of connections to be made and communications that will take place by searching the site by commonalities. If you would like to see more tutorials pertaining to this social network click here: &lt;a href="http://dev.fwwtest.com/?page=tutorials"&gt;http://dev.fwwtest.com/?page=tutorials&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2008 20:53:01 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>firstwivesworld.com - The First Conversation with the Step Mom: 3 Topics You Must Cover</title>
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If your Ex has remarried and you share custody of your kids, you?ll have to speak with your Ex?s new wife (aka ?the step-mom?) sooner or later. So why not do it right ? right from the start?  From making sure the homework gets done to arranging ?the drop-offs?, divorce expert Brenda Rodstrom has great advice for making this cringe-worthy relationship a healthy one.&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 21:56:06 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>firstwivesworld.com - A Blended Family Holiday: 3 Pitfalls to Avoid</title>
      <link>http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/videos/34/</link>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/videos/34/&quot; title=&quot;firstwivesworld.com - A Blended Family Holiday: 3 Pitfalls to Avoid&quot; &gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://cdn-thumbs.viddler.com/thumbnail_1_aabe9e20.jpg&quot; width=&quot;114&quot; height=&quot;86&quot; alt=&quot;firstwivesworld.com - A Blended Family Holiday: 3 Pitfalls to Avoid&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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Sure, the Brady Bunch made Christmas and Thanksgiving look fun, but navigating blended family get-togethers in the real world is more like an episode of Law &amp; Order: Dysfunctional Family Unit.  Here, divorce &amp; co-parenting mediator Dr. Jeannette Lofas identifies what not to do when blending for the holidays.&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 17:15:01 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/videos/34/</guid>
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      <title>firstwivesworld.com - 3 Tips to Help Your Kid(s) Deal with a New Sibling</title>
      <link>http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/videos/33/</link>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/videos/33/&quot; title=&quot;firstwivesworld.com - 3 Tips to Help Your Kid(s) Deal with a New Sibling&quot; &gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://cdn-thumbs.viddler.com/thumbnail_1_5a34e15c.jpg&quot; width=&quot;114&quot; height=&quot;86&quot; alt=&quot;firstwivesworld.com - 3 Tips to Help Your Kid(s) Deal with a New Sibling&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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Has a new marriage suddenly thrown step-siblings into the already frenzied mix of your blended family? If so, you?re likely to have your hands full: Managing a bigger family, warding off negative emotions, and making sure all the kids get along. But fear not, help is just a click away in the form of clinical social worker Debra Burrell, who shares her expert tips with Debbie.&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 16:11:01 GMT</pubDate>
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Now that your child is a teenager, do you feel you finally have a confidant instead of a kid?  Can you share your frustrations about love, money, and your Ex?  No, no, and no!  Watch as child expert Susan Epstein explains to Debbie why your problems are T.M.I. for your teens (Duh, Mom..."Too much information"...!)&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 14:36:05 GMT</pubDate>
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Does your Ex maintain a different set of rules in his house than you do in yours?  Is your child picking up different values and manners (and maybe even a different vocabulary) whenever s/he is away?  Consistency is important, but difficult to attain.  So watch Debbie's chat with Dr. Scott Haltzman, who shares tips for unifying both of your child's homes. &#xD;
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 15:22:11 GMT</pubDate>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 17:58:26 GMT</pubDate>
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Preparing your child(ren) for divorce is a tough task.  But are they already aware that a divorce is on the horizon?  Watch Debbie?s chat with Certified Parent Coach Tammy Gold, who identifies the signs that lead children to suspect marital problems, as well as how to best deal with children?s emotions at this difficult time.&#xD;
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      <pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 14:47:21 GMT</pubDate>
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When you can't read his mind, read his pocketbook! Believe it or not, your husband's financial activity may provide plenty of clues as to if he's considering divorce. Watch as Financial Expert Lili Vasileff tells Debbie what to look for.&#xD;
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Filing for bankruptcy could be described as ???a divorce for finances???. But is it your best option when a ???real??? divorce has ruined your finances? Finance Expert Sanyika Calloway Boyce chats with Debbie on the hard truth behind modern bankruptcy.&#xD;
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Is "taking him to the cleaners" your best financial move? You might be surprised. If you let your emotions dictate your financial actions during a divorce, you won't be thinking strategically ??? and ultimately might not get what you deserve. Financial expert Maryann Kelly talks with Debbie about the importance of keeping a cool head, understanding your assets, and smart negotiation.&#xD;
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&lt;a href="http://www.firstwivesworld.com/resource/money-matters"&gt;http://www.firstwivesworld.com/resource/money-matters&lt;/a&gt; &lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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How to Find An Attorney Who's Right For You&#xD;
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There are many different styles of lawyering in the divorce world. There are some who subscribe to the slash and burn mentality and others who will settle at any price. Certainly there are many in between.&#xD;
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When interviewing attorneys, it's important to choose an attorney who matches your comfort level of how aggressive you would like to be in your case. When searching for a matrimonial attorney, it's also essential to look for a lawyer who will answer your questions.&#xD;
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It's important that you understand the process so you can form a "team" with your counsel. Although your attorney will know the law, you as the client will have the best grasp on the facts. Your attorney will need to work hand in hand with you to know the relevant facts to successfully argue your case.&#xD;
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My advice is to find an attorney who never stops answering your questions. This is your life, and if you don't understand what's happening in your case or if you're uncomfortable with the way your case is being handled, you need to speak up and correct the strategy before it's too late.&#xD;
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Susan Moss&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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Laurie Puhn, J.D., is a Family and Divorce Attorney-Mediator in Private Practice and author of Instant Persuasion: How to Change Your Words to Change Your Life (Penguin).&#xD;
Think there's nothing you can do about an unfair settlement? Think again! Debbie and legal expert Laurie Puhn discuss the little-known facts surrounding renegotiating a divorce settlement.&lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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Do you know who really has legal rights over step-children? From signing report cards to drafting a will, legal expert Susan Reach Winters has some surprising answers in her informative chat with Debbie.&#xD;
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Susan Reach Winters is a shareholder and the chairperson of the family Law Department of Budd Larner, P.C. She has broad experience in all areas of family law, including divorce, prenuptial agreements, business and other asset valuations, custody and visitation, child support, alimony and equitable distribution. She holds a B.S. from Rutgers University and a J.D. from Seton Hall University School of Law. &lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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      <title>firstwivesworld.com Divorce Mediation:Successes and Failures</title>
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Divorce Mediation can be an excellent (and inexpensive) alternative to attorneys. But is it right for you? Legal expert Rachel Fishman Green gives Debbie the low-down, detailing real-life stories of when mediation worked and when it went south.&#xD;
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Rachel Fishman Green, Esq. is an attorney who began her practice as a divorce and family mediator in 1995. She graduated cum laude from Boston University School of Law in 1990.&#xD;
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Green is a former member of the Board of Directors of the Family &amp; Divorce Mediation Council of Greater New York where she chairs the Ethics Committee and the Domestic Violence Task Force and, for five years, was the editor-in-chief of that organization's newsletter, Council News. &lt;p&gt; By &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.viddler.com/explore/firstwivesworld/&quot; &gt;firstwivesworld&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&#xD;
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